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A Landslide Takes Everything
When the winds leveled and the water stopped pouring from the sky, I ventured up the hill to look at our garden. My husband warned me,...
hatheoharis
Oct 10, 20247 min read
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Your Belly Is NOT Your Self.
Why is the belly the go-to exploit of a woman's body, the go-to definitive of whether a woman's body is considered to be in-shape, the...
hatheoharis
May 20, 20213 min read
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WHOLE BODY SELF
Body Image... a hyper focus on what the body looks like and what it doesn't... what it's external presentation is according to our...
hatheoharis
May 20, 20211 min read
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Trust Your Baby & Trust Yourself!
"Nice pits", my nearly 2 year old son says with a smile as he digs his fingers and often sharp nails into my arm pit. I laugh, smile,...
hatheoharis
Aug 20, 20203 min read
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Longing, Loathing, and Loving in Motherhood.
As a younger woman, *Heather had a t-shirt with the blazing title, "GIRLS KICK BUTT". Heather lived these words. She studied hard,...
hatheoharis
Aug 20, 20206 min read
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Scars, We do Become Them.
Unlike the filters we can now use to hide our true selves (aka Instagram, Fakebook, etc..), I hid my scar in real time.
hatheoharis
Apr 29, 20209 min read
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The Moment Gone: When Trauma Introduces you to Motherhood.
"You think you can control and predict it. You think your birth plan covers [all of the contingencies]. You think because I did yoga,...
hatheoharis
Mar 4, 20205 min read
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Nicotine Dependence - Why Is It SOOOO Hard to Quit?
Years ago, a former client called me on the phone and said, "Helena, Guess what?". "What?", I said. "I quit smoking!", he said. I...
hatheoharis
Feb 20, 20203 min read
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PMADs: Intrusive Thoughts and the Healing through Exposing Them.
The social worker said, "The 4th trimester is all about survival....Intrusive thoughts are normal.... If things don't get better in 2...
hatheoharis
Feb 13, 20204 min read
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Opiate Addiction Recovery. A Reflection on Methadone Maintenance Treatment.
Years ago, I served as a therapist for clients receiving treatment at a methadone maintenance treatment center. As it was then as it is...
hatheoharis
Jan 16, 20204 min read
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